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139: Conflict and Connection in Marriage With Brett Nikula

139: Conflict and Connection in Marriage With Brett Nikula

These are the questions we discussed in today’s episode! I’m so happy to introduce you to my good friend Brett, who is a Marriage and Family Therapist, and also a Life Coach.

-Can you introduce yourself, and share with my audience how you came to do the work you are doing?

-Conflict with your spouse after your child dies is a huge stressor for many grieving mothers. Can you share a little bit about the conflict cycle that you teach about, and how couples can use it to connect.

-We also think that there’s something wrong with our marriage when we have conflict. Is this true?

-What happens if only one person is wanting to change or work on their marriage?

-How would a couple know if they need help in their marriage or not?

If you want to connect with Brett and learn more from him, or schedule a appointment with him you can find him through these links!

Facebook- www.facebook.com/pivotalapproachmn

Instagram- www.instagram.com/pivotalapproachmn

Www.pivotalapproach.com

If you like this podcast, and found it helpful, I want to invite you come check out Grieving Moms Haven, my monthly community for Grieving moms, where you can learn positive coping mechanisms, find a safe space with others who understand, and learn life long skills that support you as you learn how to carry this weight of grief in your life.

There are group coaching calls where we do guided meditations, tapping meditations, breathwork, and just talk, knowing that everyone in the group is also walking the path of child loss

You can come check out Grieving Moms Haven at www.grievingmomshaven.com

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